Membership Masterclass: Mastering the Art of Communication with Your Child

Presenter:
Presenter:
Jen Pla, M.Ed., BCBA, LBA
Jen Pla, M.Ed., BCBA, LBA
Date: April 5th, 2025
Time: 9am-10am PST
Location: Zoom
Custom Gift: All attendees will receive a complimentary printable designed to help reinforce the concepts taught in the class, making it easier to implement what you learn right away.
Cost: Members Only
Spots: 50
What It’s About
If you’ve ever found yourself saying the same thing over and over, raising your voice, or feeling like your child just isn’t listening—you’re not alone. Mastering the Art of Communication with Your Child is designed to help you break those frustrating cycles and replace them with tools that actually work.
This class dives into the power of clear, connected, and respectful communication. You’ll learn how to speak so your child is more likely to listen—without needing to yell, repeat yourself, or rely on consequences. We’ll explore how behavior is a form of communication, and how understanding the “why” behind your child’s actions can help you respond in more effective and compassionate ways.
We’ll also look at common communication traps that unintentionally escalate conflict and how to shift toward language that promotes cooperation, connection, and emotional growth. You’ll discover what to say (and what to avoid) in high-stress moments, how to set limits with kindness, and how to model emotional regulation through your words and tone.
This class offers simple phrases and practical strategies you can start using immediately—tools that help reduce power struggles, build trust, and teach important life skills like empathy, self-awareness, and problem-solving. Whether your child is a toddler or school-aged, the techniques covered are adaptable, realistic, and grounded in evidence-based practices.
You’ll walk away with a deeper understanding of how to communicate with intention, support your child’s emotional development, and create a more peaceful, cooperative home environment.
What to Expect
Below is the class outline and what you can expect to learn through attending.
Understanding Behavior as Communication
• Why children act out and what their behavior is really saying
• How unmet needs show up as challenging behaviors
• The connection between emotional development and communication
Shifting from Reacting to Responding
• Identifying personal triggers and staying calm under pressure
• Using simple, respectful language during tough moments
• Strategies for modeling emotional regulation
Building Cooperation Through Language
• How to give clear directions that your child will follow
• Using positive phrasing to reduce power struggles
• Encouraging listening skills and mutual respect
Repairing After Conflict
• What to say after yelling or losing patience
• How to guide apologies and make amends
• Rebuilding trust and connection through communication
Creating a Communication-Rich Home Environment
• Daily routines that support open communication
• Using storytelling, questions, and reflection to build connection
• Encouraging emotional expression and problem-solving through conversation
Who Should Attend
This class is designed for parents who are members of the Aligned Families community. It’s a supportive space for those who are ready to deepen their understanding of communication and build stronger, more connected relationships with their children.
It’s especially valuable for:
- Parents of children ages 2–10 navigating big emotions, meltdowns, or frequent power struggles
• Families supporting children with autism, ADHD, sensory sensitivities, or other unique developmental needs
• Single parents seeking calm, consistent communication strategies that truly work
• Blended families and step-parents working to build trust and shared understanding
• Co-parents aiming to stay aligned in their approach, even across different households
• Caregivers and educators who are part of a child’s support system and want to reinforce positive, respectful communication at home and school
If you’re not yet a member of Aligned Families and are interested in accessing this class and others like it, feel free to reach out to me directly at jen@alignedfamilies.com. I’d be happy to share more about how the membership works and help you get started.
My Gift to You
*for attendees only
All attendees will receive tailored resources designed to help reinforce the concepts taught in the class, so you can immediately apply what you’ve learned in a meaningful way. The goal is to provide you with something practical you can take with you and use right away.
Depending on the class topic, your gift may include:
- Printables to support structured routines and positive behavior.
- Behavior charts, reward charts, and sticker charts to encourage cooperation and reinforce good habits.
- Potty training charts to help guide your child through the process with consistency.
- Parenting printables and educational resources designed to promote emotional regulation, communication, and positive discipline.
- Parenting guides with expert-backed strategies to help you navigate common challenges with confidence.
Each gift is intentionally selected to align with the skills and techniques covered in the class, making it easier for you to implement what you’ve learned. Whether it’s a visual tool, structured plan, or step-by-step guide, you’ll walk away with a valuable resource you can start using immediately to create a calmer, more connected home.
About the Presenter
Jen Pla, M.Ed., BCBA, LBA
Hi! I'm a Family Alignment Coach with 24+ years of experience guiding parents through the challenges and joys of raising children. I combine my experience in behavior analysis, education and meditation to create personalized parenting plans that help families connect, communicate more effectively and co-create a life they love. When I'm not supporting families, you'll find me hiking, camping, meditating, or practicing yoga at my local studio in Encinitas, California.
Jen Pla, M.Ed., BCBA, LBA
Hi! I'm a Family Alignment Coach with 24+ years of experience guiding parents through the challenges and joys of raising children. I combine my experience in behavior analysis, education and meditation to create personalized parenting plans that help families connect, communicate more effectively and co-create a life they love. When I'm not supporting families, you'll find me hiking, camping, meditating, or practicing yoga at my local studio in Encinitas, California.
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