From Yelling to Connecting: A Guide to Calmer Communication (Free Parenting Class)

Presenter:
Presenter:
Jen Pla, M.Ed., BCBA, LBA
Jen Pla, M.Ed., BCBA, LBA
Date: March 19th, 2025
Time: 12pm-12:45pm PST
Location: Zoom
Custom Gift: Free Parenting Printable
Cost: Free
Spots: 25
What It’s About
Yelling often feels like the only way to get children to listen, but it can lead to stress, guilt, and disconnection between parents and kids. If you find yourself raising your voice more often than you’d like, you’re not alone—and you can break the cycle. This class will teach you how to replace yelling with calm, effective communication that strengthens your relationship while still maintaining boundaries.
When children feel understood and supported, they are more likely to cooperate and communicate effectively. In this class, you’ll learn:
✔️ Why yelling happens and how to recognize your triggers before frustration escalates
✔️ How to set clear, firm boundaries without resorting to yelling
✔️ Effective communication techniques that encourage cooperation
✔️ Ways to model emotional regulation so your child learns self-control
✔️ Connection-based parenting strategies to strengthen your relationship
By using gentle yet firm communication, you’ll build mutual respect and trust while teaching your child better ways to express emotions. These strategies not only reduce power struggles but also help you stay calm and confident in high-stress moments.
This class is perfect for parents of toddlers and young children (ages 1-10), parents of children with autism, ADHD, or other unique needs, single parents, co-parents, and educators who want to improve communication and create a more peaceful home.
Bonus: All attendees will receive a Free Parenting Printable with practical tools to help replace yelling with calm communication.
What to Expect
Below is the class outline and what you can expect to learn through attending
1. Understanding Why Yelling Happens
- Identify common triggers that lead to yelling and frustration.
- Learn how stress, exhaustion, and unmet needs contribute to reactive parenting.
- Recognize the impact yelling has on children’s emotional development and behavior.
2. Breaking the Cycle: Managing Your Own Emotions
- Develop self-awareness to recognize frustration before it escalates.
- Use mindfulness and calming techniques to regulate your emotions.
- Model emotional control to teach your child healthy communication skills.
3. Effective Communication Strategies to Replace Yelling
- Use positive language and connection-based communication techniques.
- Set clear expectations and boundaries without raising your voice.
- Implement active listening skills to improve cooperation and understanding.
4. Encouraging Cooperation Without Power Struggles
- Teach problem-solving skills to help children express their needs appropriately.
- Offer choices to give children a sense of control and responsibility.
- Use natural consequences and reinforcement to encourage positive behavior.
5. Creating a Calmer, More Connected Home
- Foster a respectful and trusting parent-child relationship through connection.
- Develop routines that promote peaceful interactions and reduce stress.
- Receive a Free Parenting Printable to support calm communication strategies at home.
Who Should Attend
The parenting class is for all parents and educators looking to replace yelling with calm, effective communication and create a more connected home environment, including:
- Parents of toddlers and young children (ages 1-10) who want to improve communication and cooperation without resorting to yelling.
- Parents of children with autism, ADHD, and other unique needs who need adaptable strategies for emotional regulation and positive behavior reinforcement.
- Single parents who manage challenging behaviors on their own and need effective, stress-reducing techniques.
- Co-parents who want to maintain consistent communication strategies across different households to support their child’s emotional development.
Educators and caregivers who work with young children and want to improve cooperation and reduce power struggles in group settings.
My Gift to You
*for attendees only
All attendees will receive a tailored resource designed to help reinforce the concepts taught in the class, so you can immediately apply what you’ve learned in a meaningful way. The goal is to provide you with something practical you can take with you and use right away.
Depending on the class topic, your gift may include:
- Printables to support structured routines and positive behavior.
- Behavior charts, reward charts, and sticker charts to encourage cooperation and reinforce good habits.
- Potty training charts to help guide your child through the process with consistency.
- Parenting printables and educational resources designed to promote emotional regulation, communication, and positive discipline.
- Parenting guides with expert-backed strategies to help you navigate common challenges with confidence.
Each gift is intentionally selected to align with the skills and techniques covered in the class, making it easier for you to implement what you’ve learned. Whether it’s a visual tool, structured plan, or step-by-step guide, you’ll walk away with a valuable resource you can start using immediately to create a calmer, more connected home.
About the Presenter
Jen Pla, M.Ed., BCBA, LBA
Hi! I'm a Family Alignment Coach with 24+ years of experience guiding parents through the challenges and joys of raising children. I combine my experience in behavior analysis, education and meditation to create personalized parenting plans that help families connect, communicate more effectively and co-create a life they love. When I'm not supporting families, you'll find me hiking, camping, meditating, or practicing yoga at my local studio in Encinitas, California.
Jen Pla, M.Ed., BCBA, LBA
Hi! I'm a Family Alignment Coach with 24+ years of experience guiding parents through the challenges and joys of raising children. I combine my experience in behavior analysis, education and meditation to create personalized parenting plans that help families connect, communicate more effectively and co-create a life they love. When I'm not supporting families, you'll find me hiking, camping, meditating, or practicing yoga at my local studio in Encinitas, California.
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RSVP Information
After you RSVP below, you will receive an email with the Zoom link to attend the class at the scheduled date and time. We try to schedule our classes during typical lunch breaks, so you can join from the comfort of your home, car, or anywhere that fits your schedule, making it easy to participate without disrupting your day.
To ensure a stress-free and private learning experience, your video and audio will remain off throughout the session. At the end of the class, we will host a live Q&A session, where you’ll have the opportunity to ask questions via the chat feature and receive guidance in a comfortable, distraction-free environment.
Please note that this class will be recorded, and by RSVPing, you acknowledge and consent to being part of the recording. The recording may be used for educational purposes, marketing, or future course content. Any chat questions or participant interactions included in the recording will remain anonymous.
If you have any questions, feel free to reach out to Jen@alignedfamilies.com. If you’d like to invite a partner, friend, or relative, please forward this link so they can register separately. Each participant will need to RSVP individually to attend the class.
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